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Sex is not a goddamn performance. Sex should feel as natural as drinking water. It should not require confidence.
Sex should happen, because the moment is ripe. Ripening lips, ripening labia, ripening cock, ripening pupils, ripening state of being. Ripe and augmented and brimming. Your energy goes to your pumping heart, then to every external nerve, then to theirs, on fire.
You bask, roll, play in it. You sigh, moan, laugh. It’s not about being “good in bed.” It’s about being happy.
One should never worry if they’re doing it “correctly.” Sex is not factual. I don’t want your cookie-cutter sex, I don’t want your meticulously crafted, calculated, fool-proof fuck. I don’t want a show. I want you. Let your instincts, urges and whims define that. It’s enough.
What do most girls like? Forget about it. Statistics are meaningless when there’s only one. Hello, here’s me. Here’s you. Don’t worry about taking it too slow. We got time. We got infinite rhythms, combinations, possibilities. Explore each fuck. Take our time. We can do a different one later.
Don’t worry about making me come. I’m here. Right where I want to be. I am overwhelmed by wanting; you don’t have to convince me. I want you because I like you. So don’t put on a front. Don’t taint this.
I’m frustrated—it’s just authenticity I want. It’s originality. It’s passion. It’s joy. Don’t say that something I like is ugly. Don’t compare yourself to the rest. You will live and die with and within your experiences like everyone else. If someone thinks you are amazing, they are not wrong. Their universe is as real as any other; it is forged through perception.
I don’t care if you accidentally slammed my head into the wall, if you slipped out, if my arm cracked, if the delightful pressure of your wet lips on my anything made a silly sound. There is no right way and no wrong way.
“Good in bed,” what. You’re good in my bed. I’m pleased you’re there. I feel it suits you. Shove your technique. Let your memory swallow it. Fuck me like you’d fuck me, fuck me like you feel. This isn’t a test.
since america refuses to give comprehensive sex ed, a lot of people end up learning from….porn. not the most wonderful thing when sex is represented inaccurately in all kiiiinds of ways in pornography.
I’m sure a lot of you have already seen this, it’s certainly all over the sex education tags.
The main issues I have with it are the exclusion of mentioning how much cissexism is a part of our language and education on sex and I would have put more emphasis on consent and how many of these concepts are a part of rape culture. For instance, I remember a quote at some point saying how you don’t just order someone a pizza, you ask if they want to go eat pizza with you and ask what they want on it.
Also, just a personal note I had to add because it’s about pizza. I’m lactose intolerant so whenever we order pizza we keep that in mind and order it without cheese. Sometimes my partners will eat pizza with cheese on the side but they’re sure to get me something without cheese. We also have to keep my physical conditions in mind when we have sex. We have to make sure it’s something I can do and sometimes I don’t feel up to it which is okay because my partner can always masturbate later (eat a slice of pizza with cheese). I really like this new metaphor!
|—||Candida Royalle’s “What’s a Nice Girl Like You…” from The Feminist Porn Book (via thefeministpress)|
STOP TEACHING GIRLS THAT THEIR WORTH AS A PERSON LIES IN THEIR VIRGINITY PLEASE AND THANK YOU
Its not even a thing. Virginity is a (extremely detrimental) social construct. Sex is just sex and it does not change you physically whatsoever, & it doesn’t mean you have bad morals, or that you should be ashamed or that you’re ‘impure’ or any of that nonsense.
i still don’t understand why girls have to pay for pads and boys can get free condoms
girls HAVE to have their periods and boys don’t HAVE to have sex
This is the best post I have ever seen
Though I do agree the pads/tampons should be more accessible, I think that it’s imperative to not downplay the importance of condoms and other contraceptives to not only men, but everyone. Access to contraceptives literally saves lives. And unwanted pregnancy is a cool thing to avoid too.